Do not use Roast Dating and specifically anything that the owner Ben does or says. They give terrible generic advice along the lines of “It works for me so it should work for you” only the advice they give is only stuff the has worked for them but doesn’t
Do not use Roast Dating and specifically anything that the owner Ben does or says. They give terrible generic advice along the lines of “It works for me so it should work for you” only the advice they give is only stuff the has worked for them but doesn’t work for others. Ben himself is condescending and rude and isn’t there to help you at all but only take your money. If you ask him for help he gives you bad crude and cruel advice where he only criticises you for your problems and also calls you a cry baby when you express how stressed you are with your problems. He also likes to cut you off in the Telegram chat if you ask for help if he feels you are one of those ‘crybabies’ or if you have disagreed with how he has treated you in the past. So if you then ask a question in the chat he will then post a spam self promoting message advertising one of his con rip off Roast offers for people, so they will respond him and bury your message. Ben doesn’t care for his customers or even likes them. I have seen him treat others with a bullying nasty manner, and when his advice to them doesn’t work he then bails on his own advice giving system and says stuff like “Well if you/I can’t make Tinder work then go and do something else”, meaning he knows he can’t help you but also is rude about it and basically tells you to get lost if he fails you, which he knows he has.<br />
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Time and time again I have seen him talk down to others who have problems that he hasn’t been able to solve with his generic advice that frankly doesn’t help other people out who aren’t like him and is advice that only helps a tiny % of people.<br />
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The fact is that his tip and tricks etc. aren’t that knowledgeable and don’t cater for the majority of the people who come to him for help. I have seen it over and over in the chats how people say that his help doesn’t work and he then is rude to them and gives them the ‘hard life is tough and you’re only to blame” speels and just is mean to them when they reply back. He is there just to take your money and give you a generic copy and paste list.<br />
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Ben also gets angry if you haven’t paid to use his Roast system yet. He blames people for their own failures on his chats and threatens to kick you off or says that you shouldn’t even be there and that no one should reply to your problems and says words about you to turn people against you. You result in arguments with him and you never get a straight answer to any question that you originally ask him and he then shouts at you and basically says that unless you are like him then you suck and deserve to fail. A The AI system he now employs doesn’t work either and gives only vague, non-specific answers or else gives answers that only work for certain individuals rather than what can work for everyone. <br />
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Did I also mention that the system that he uses for himself is very abusive, toxic masculine towards women and treats them with disrespect? He has a very aggressive and rude manner with his approach to women and basically involves getting them to do things without their consent or in overpowering them to the point of surrender until he gets the results that he wants from them.<br />
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It’s an overly forceful approach that has had women reporting him in the past and filing complaints for emotional and sexual abuse, whether this is his text game to them or if he has met them in real life and treated them in this aggressive forceful way. <br />
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I say this at the end as it is an entirely different subject and complaint in itself the I ask other people to look into.
